New Years Resolutions, Dr Scott Whiting

Making new year’s resolutions that actually stick: a bariatric surgeon’s guide

Let’s be honest: most New Year’s resolutions fail by February. Not because people lack willpower, but because they’re built on shaky foundations. After years of supporting patients through their health journeys, I’ve learned what separates lasting change from January enthusiasm.

 

Understanding your “why”: extrinsic vs intrinsic goals

Before you commit to any resolution, ask yourself: Why do you want this?

Extrinsic goals are driven by external factors – losing weight to impress others, fitting into a certain size because society says you should, or exercising because you feel you have to.

Intrinsic goals come from within – wanting to play with your children without getting fatigued, feeling energised throughout your day, or simply living a longer, healthier life for yourself and loved ones.

Here’s what I’ve observed: patients with intrinsic motivation have significantly higher success rates. When your “why” comes from genuine personal values rather than external pressure, you persist through challenges.

So before you write down “lose 20kg,” dig deeper. What will those 20kg give you? More time with family? Freedom from medication? That’s your real goal.

 

Building sustainability into your goals

The word “diet” implies something temporary. But sustainable health changes are transformative lifestyle shifts. This is where the SMART method becomes invaluable:

  • Specific: “Walk 20 minutes each morning” beats “get healthier”
  • Measurable: Track your progress – steps, energy levels, how clothes fit
  • Achievable: Can you realistically do this with your current life? If not, adjust
  • Relevant: Does this align with your broader health vision?
  • Time-bound: Set monthly checkpoints, not just yearly targets

 

If you can’t see yourself maintaining this change in five years, it’s not sustainable. We’re building habits that become second nature, not quick fixes.

 

The power of 1% better

Here’s where people go wrong every January: they try to overhaul everything overnight. Daily gym sessions, elimination diets, perfect adherence from day one. Then life happens. They miss a day, eat something “off plan,” and suddenly they’ve “failed.” The all-or-nothing mentality takes over.

Try this instead: aim to be just 1% better each day.

What does 1% look like?

  • Taking the stairs once today
  • Drinking one extra glass of water
  • Adding vegetables to dinner
  • Going to bed 15 minutes earlier

 

These tiny improvements compound dramatically. Improve by 1% daily, and by year’s end, you’ll be better than when you started. Don’t wait for January 1st to be perfect. Start where you are and build from there.

 

The critical role of your support system

I’ve never seen someone achieve lasting health transformation completely alone.

Whether it’s family, friends, support groups, or healthcare professionals, having people in your corner makes all the difference. They celebrate your wins, help you navigate setbacks, and hold you accountable when motivation wavers.

This is particularly important for anyone managing significant health changes. The journey isn’t just physical – it’s emotional and psychological too. Our team of specialised dietitians and nurses work alongside patients throughout their entire journey, providing practical strategies, evidence-based guidance and non-judgmental support.

Don’t be afraid to ask for help. It’s a strategic decision that dramatically increases your odds of success.

 

Making your goals visible

There’s real power in getting your goals out of your head and into the physical world.

Some people create vision boards with images representing their health goals. Others find that writing goals down makes them more concrete – research shows people who write down their goals are significantly more likely to achieve them.

You might:

  • Keep a journal tracking how you feel
  • Write your main goal on sticky notes placed where you’ll see them daily
  • Create a simple daily habit checklist
  • Take monthly progress photos

 

Find what resonates with you and stick with it.

 

Making this year different

New Year’s resolutions don’t have to end in disappointment. When built on intrinsic motivation, sustainability, incremental progress, strong support and visible reminders, they become genuine catalysts for lasting change.

If you’re looking to make this year the year where your health comes first, but are unsure of where to start, you don’t have to figure it out alone.

Contact our team for expert guidance and support.

Together, we can turn your health goals into your new
reality – not just for January, but for life.

Here’s to a year of sustainable, meaningful change.

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Date: 21 July 2026
Time: 5:30pm – 6:30pm
Venue: Mater Conference Centre